Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Life after marriage

It has been a long time since I've written the last post. I was on the verge of a new beginning. Those who know me personally already knows what I'm talking about. For those who don't, let me tell you that I've got married. This is the new beginning of my life. By the way, let me tell you that ours is an arranged marriage (turned love marriage :P).

People say that life has not changed after marriage. Even I tell people this whenever asked. But to tell you the truth, there are lot of changes to count. My way of thinking has changed. The more careless and irresponsible I was, the more responsible and caring I have become. It feels good to care for my husband. Happiness is no longer one's own. It's shared. One draws happiness from the others smiles. I've (perhaps !!) learned to be patient. Listen and obey him(with lots of nagging though :P). The sense of security and comfort that I enjoy now was never before in the past one year.

Enough of good and philosophical words, the more realistic change is the way I lead my life. From the bustling rooms where I used to stay as paying guest to a house with two of us. From being under restrictions and orders of the tyrannous landlady, to a house where I can do things as I like.

And readers, if you are waiting for me to tell about "that" specific change in life after marriage, yes "that" too.

Life changes a great deal whether you accept it or not.